A digital publishing house. One title.
Nearly every book about love starts with him. This one starts with you.
The Selfworth Co. publishes The Woman Who Chooses Herself by Elena Hart. It begins with what you are worth and what you actually need, and treats every question about him as the second question.
₦24,999, about $18 USD. One payment, and the download opens straight after it.
Written for the woman who runs a team, a classroom or a household well, and cannot explain to herself why she keeps choosing men who make her smaller. She has read the theory. It never converted into a decision.
You can name the pattern. Naming it has not moved you.
- 01You noticed something on the first night and had explained it away by the third.
- 02You made a need smaller so the evening would stay calm.
- 03You read the book, recognised yourself on page 40, and changed nothing.
- 04You stayed, because alone sounded worse than being made small.
The problem was never information. Therapy is months away and expensive, the feed is endless and structurally useless, and a shelf of $3 titles gives you no reason to trust a word of it.
Worth first. The decision second.
Healthy love becomes possible when you stop abandoning yourself to keep a relationship. So the book refuses to tell you what to do about him until you have an answer about yourself.
Then it walks you all the way to something you can decide this week: stay, say the thing, set the boundary, leave, or choose differently next time.
The usual order
Start with him. Name the behaviour. Leave her to apply it alone.
Our order
Start with her worth. Then the relationship. Then a decision, on paper, this week.
Shown as the printed object. It is delivered as an ebook.
What is inside
- Chapters
- Psychology made usable. Patterns named precisely, in real words, with no diagnosis attached to you.
- Reflection questions
- At the close of each chapter, about your relationship rather than the idea of one.
- Self-assessments
- An honest account of what you are getting and what it costs you, not a label for your attachment style.
- Worksheets
- Pages you print and fill in, so the answer ends up in your own handwriting, which is the only place it counts.
₦24,999
About $18 USD. One payment, and the download opens straight after it. No account, no subscription, nothing recurring.
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What this publisher will not do.
- Never shame you for the person you chose.
- Never attack men. This is not that kind of book.
- Never promise what your relationship will do next.
- Never claim a clinical credential. Elena Hart is a writer.
- Never invent a review, a rating or a number of copies sold.
Reader reviews
No reader reviews yet, because nobody has read it yet. Real readers’ words will appear here as they arrive, with permission, and nothing else ever will.
Read her for nothing before you pay for anything.
Five essays on the questions that keep you up: whether what you noticed is real, what it has cost you, how to say what you need, and how to decide. Free to read. No address asked for.
“You already know. The book is what you do about it.”
Elena Hart, from chapter one
Elena Hart is the pen name the founder writes under. She is not a therapist and will never be described as one. The credential here is the writing, and you will be able to judge it before you pay anything.
Five essays are on this site now, free, with no address asked for. Chapter one and one short letter a week follow, and the book sits quietly underneath all of it.
Read the essaysThe imprint, later
- A companion workbook.
- A book on rebuilding after leaving.
- A book on the decisions in early dating.
None of it is written yet. The first book has to earn its readers first.
One book, finished, for the woman who is quietly auditing her own relationship.
₦24,999, about $18 USD. One payment, and the download opens straight after it. Nothing on this page collects your email address.